2.0K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 68 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 10 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (91%).
r/abusiverelationships Traffic & Engagement r/abusiverelationships Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/abusiverelationships Most Active Times When r/abusiverelationships Is Most Active
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r/abusiverelationships Flair Performance r/abusiverelationships Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Emotional abuse | 217 (19.0%) | 8 |
| Support request | 168 (14.7%) | 3 |
| TRIGGER WARNING | 156 (13.7%) | 6 |
| Just venting | 151 (13.2%) | 5 |
| Healing and recovery | 127 (11.1%) | 7 |
| Domestic violence | 110 (9.6%) | 7 |
| Sexual violence | 56 (4.9%) | 5 |
| Gaslighting | 34 (3.0%) | 10 |
| Help for a friend | 28 (2.5%) | 2 |
| Help maintaining no-contact | 18 (1.6%) | 2 |
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r/abusiverelationships Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/abusiverelationships
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| abusive | 252 (12.3%) | 7 | 6 |
| relationship | 190 (9.3%) | 4 | 6 |
| abuse | 164 (8.0%) | 4 | 5 |
| need | 121 (5.9%) | 3 | 5 |
| leave | 99 (4.8%) | 4 | 5 |
| feel | 95 (4.6%) | 4 | 7 |
| know | 94 (4.6%) | 4 | 5 |
| help | 87 (4.3%) | 3 | 5 |
| advice | 84 (4.1%) | 2 | 4 |
| husband | 75 (3.7%) | 9 | 9 |
r/abusiverelationships Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/abusiverelationships
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| tiktok.com | 4 | 1 |
| youtube.com | 3 | 1 |
r/abusiverelationships Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/abusiverelationships
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Left my abusive bf 3 days ago. Today I got the kitten he didn’t want me to get.
I (25F) just found a secret spreadsheet where my boyfriend (27M) rated me, my friends, and my 22-year-old sister.
My 12 year old daughter wants no contact with her dad. Do these texts seem abusive?
Your face tells the story 💔❤️🩹
Leaving was the best thing I ever did
I (26F) warned my ex abusers (26M) new fiancé (22F). Did I make a mistake?
We are the only ones who have the unfortunate opportunity to see their ugly side.
I Thought I Had Married a Good Man. Then We Took a Trip to California.
He's dead!
My Bf Raped Me as Punishment
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Left my abusive bf 3 days ago. Today I got the kitten he didn’t want me to get. | 560 | 48 | image | Sep 17 |
| I (25F) just found a secret spreadsheet where my boyfriend (27M) rated me, my friends, and my 22-year-old sister. | 283 | 46 | text | Sep 21 |
| My 12 year old daughter wants no contact with her dad. Do these texts seem abusive? | 196 | 128 | image | Sep 30 |
| Your face tells the story 💔❤️🩹 | 194 | 32 | image | Sep 15 |
| Leaving was the best thing I ever did | 173 | 18 | image | Sep 23 |
| I (26F) warned my ex abusers (26M) new fiancé (22F). Did I make a mistake? | 147 | 62 | image | Sep 19 |
| We are the only ones who have the unfortunate opportunity to see their ugly side. | 143 | 10 | image | Sep 21 |
| I Thought I Had Married a Good Man. Then We Took a Trip to California. | 140 | 48 | text | Sep 2 |
| He's dead! | 128 | 53 | text | Sep 10 |
| My Bf Raped Me as Punishment | 108 | 52 | text | Sep 26 |
r/abusiverelationships Audience Overlap r/abusiverelationships Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/abusiverelationships FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/abusiverelationships
What's the best time to post on r/abusiverelationships?
Based on posting volume, r/abusiverelationships is most active on Tuesdays around 10 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/abusiverelationships?
r/abusiverelationships averages 68 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/abusiverelationships get?
Posts on r/abusiverelationships average about 6 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/abusiverelationships get most?
On r/abusiverelationships, most posts are text posts (91%)