2.2K posts analyzed Updated Jul 2026
Averages 69 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 6 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (91%).
r/abusiverelationships Traffic & Engagement r/abusiverelationships Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/abusiverelationships Most Active Times When r/abusiverelationships Is Most Active
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r/abusiverelationships Flair Performance r/abusiverelationships Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Emotional abuse | 242 (21.8%) | 4 |
| Support request | 164 (14.8%) | 3 |
| Just venting | 153 (13.8%) | 7 |
| TRIGGER WARNING | 148 (13.3%) | 5 |
| Domestic violence | 129 (11.6%) | 6 |
| Healing and recovery | 79 (7.1%) | 14 |
| Sexual violence | 41 (3.7%) | 4 |
| Gaslighting | 33 (3.0%) | 6 |
| Help for a friend | 31 (2.8%) | 2 |
| Resources request | 16 (1.4%) | 7 |
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r/abusiverelationships Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/abusiverelationships
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| abusive | 256 (11.9%) | 4 | 4 |
| abuse | 206 (9.6%) | 6 | 8 |
| relationship | 197 (9.2%) | 4 | 5 |
| need | 139 (6.5%) | 3 | 5 |
| know | 120 (5.6%) | 5 | 7 |
| help | 114 (5.3%) | 3 | 4 |
| leave | 100 (4.7%) | 4 | 5 |
| feel | 92 (4.3%) | 6 | 5 |
| i'm | 89 (4.1%) | 4 | 5 |
| advice | 86 (4.0%) | 4 | 5 |
r/abusiverelationships Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/abusiverelationships
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
| Domain | Links | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| c.org | 4 | 1 |
| change.org | 3 | 2 |
r/abusiverelationships Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/abusiverelationships
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Got the keys to my new place today
i made it out and i promise you can too
Tell me you objectify women without telling me
What do you guys think of this living contract he made for me?
Why Did He Do That?
This may not seem like a big deal… but every previous version of me would be so jealous of my bedroom right now
Help I’m in love 16 yr relationship
I MADE THE REPORT AND HES IN JAIL NOW
I don't think people realize
I wokeup an hour late dude
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Got the keys to my new place today | 804 | 43 | image | Jul 15 |
| i made it out and i promise you can too | 438 | 34 | image | Jul 21 |
| Tell me you objectify women without telling me | 369 | 186 | image | Jul 19 |
| What do you guys think of this living contract he made for me? | 288 | 517 | image | Jul 13 |
| Why Did He Do That? | 182 | 51 | image | Jul 19 |
| This may not seem like a big deal… but every previous version of me would be so jealous of my bedroom right now | 177 | 13 | image | Jul 11 |
| Help I’m in love 16 yr relationship | 169 | 89 | image | Jul 29 |
| I MADE THE REPORT AND HES IN JAIL NOW | 161 | 19 | text | Jul 29 |
| I don't think people realize | 156 | 45 | text | Jul 26 |
| I wokeup an hour late dude | 141 | 94 | image | Jul 22 |
r/abusiverelationships Audience Overlap r/abusiverelationships Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/abusiverelationships FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/abusiverelationships
What's the best time to post on r/abusiverelationships?
Based on posting volume, r/abusiverelationships is most active on Wednesdays around 6 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/abusiverelationships?
r/abusiverelationships averages 69 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/abusiverelationships get?
Posts on r/abusiverelationships average about 6 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/abusiverelationships get most?
On r/abusiverelationships, most posts are text posts (91%)