327 posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 11 posts/day, top 25% activity. Most active Mondays around 11 AM UTC. Mostly text posts (99%).
r/EthicalNonMonogamy Traffic & Engagement r/EthicalNonMonogamy Traffic & Engagement
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r/EthicalNonMonogamy Most Active Times When r/EthicalNonMonogamy Is Most Active
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r/EthicalNonMonogamy Flair Performance r/EthicalNonMonogamy Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Advice needed | 139 (42.6%) | 6 |
| Getting started | 62 (19.0%) | 4 |
| General ENM Question | 49 (15.0%) | 6 |
| Personal story | 27 (8.3%) | 13 |
| ENM Opinion | 25 (7.7%) | 6 |
| Mods, help me choose a flair for this | 7 (2.1%) | 4 |
| Other | 7 (2.1%) | 8 |
| Poly | 6 (1.8%) | 50 |
| Swinger | 4 (1.2%) | 16 |
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r/EthicalNonMonogamy Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/EthicalNonMonogamy
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| enm | 60 (18.4%) | 8 | 19 |
| relationship | 31 (9.5%) | 3 | 13 |
| advice | 26 (8.0%) | 3 | 15 |
| partner | 26 (8.0%) | 7 | 18 |
| want | 18 (5.5%) | 12 | 19 |
| wife | 16 (4.9%) | 6 | 15 |
| poly | 15 (4.6%) | 8 | 11 |
| non | 14 (4.3%) | 4 | 16 |
| monogamy | 14 (4.3%) | 7 | 26 |
| open | 14 (4.3%) | 9 | 18 |
r/EthicalNonMonogamy Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/EthicalNonMonogamy
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r/EthicalNonMonogamy Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/EthicalNonMonogamy
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[TW: Polyam rant] I'm polyam, but boy do I loathe the scene...
Has anyone else noticed that polyamory often attracts people who don't actually want to build a shared life?
Why is no one talking about the *real* problem in ENM?
Lost my husband to the other woman.
Poly women who date men: how do you stay sane in dating? I can’t find anyone who practices polyamory ethically. I am utterly exhausted.
The beginning of my hotwife journey
He just left
Women in open marriages, what’s it like?
ENM not working out - but partner doesn't want to walk back
BF went full NRE with new partner (neglecting us) and now struggles with the consequences
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| [TW: Polyam rant] I'm polyam, but boy do I loathe the scene... | 182 | 103 | text | Aug 27 |
| Has anyone else noticed that polyamory often attracts people who don't actually want to build a shared life? | 66 | 57 | text | Aug 7 |
| Why is no one talking about the *real* problem in ENM? | 63 | 53 | text | Aug 27 |
| Lost my husband to the other woman. | 54 | 69 | text | Aug 3 |
| Poly women who date men: how do you stay sane in dating? I can’t find anyone who practices polyamory ethically. I am utterly exhausted. | 50 | 79 | text | Jul 31 |
| The beginning of my hotwife journey | 47 | 11 | text | Aug 31 |
| He just left | 45 | 13 | text | Aug 14 |
| Women in open marriages, what’s it like? | 43 | 33 | text | Aug 13 |
| ENM not working out - but partner doesn't want to walk back | 39 | 86 | text | Aug 24 |
| BF went full NRE with new partner (neglecting us) and now struggles with the consequences | 39 | 40 | text | Aug 8 |
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r/EthicalNonMonogamy FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/EthicalNonMonogamy
What's the best time to post on r/EthicalNonMonogamy?
Based on posting volume, r/EthicalNonMonogamy is most active on Mondays around 11 AM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/EthicalNonMonogamy?
r/EthicalNonMonogamy averages 11 posts per day and ranks in the top 25% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/EthicalNonMonogamy get?
Posts on r/EthicalNonMonogamy average about 7 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/EthicalNonMonogamy get most?
On r/EthicalNonMonogamy, most posts are text posts (99%)