1.6K posts analyzed Updated Jul 2026
Averages 51 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Fridays around 12 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/polyamory Traffic & Engagement r/polyamory Traffic & Engagement
Volume and engagement over time Posting volume and engagement over time
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/polyamory Most Active Times When r/polyamory Is Most Active
Peak posting by day and hour (UTC) When this community posts most, by day and hour (UTC)
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r/polyamory Flair Performance r/polyamory Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Curious/Learning | 276 (33.4%) | 13 |
| I am new | 219 (26.5%) | 5 |
| vent | 181 (21.9%) | 25 |
| Musings | 44 (5.3%) | 66 |
| Happy! | 38 (4.6%) | 67 |
| Married and struggling with Opening | 27 (3.3%) | 16 |
| Cheated on | 15 (1.8%) | 16 |
| no advice wanted | 8 (1.0%) | 11 |
| Rat Union Business 🐀🧀 | 7 (0.8%) | 74 |
| Poly in the News | 5 (0.6%) | 1 |
Post Type Breakdown
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r/polyamory Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/polyamory
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| poly | 260 (16.3%) | 16 | 19 |
| partner | 215 (13.5%) | 24 | 25 |
| relationship | 166 (10.4%) | 10 | 15 |
| advice | 123 (7.7%) | 8 | 13 |
| polyamory | 88 (5.5%) | 24 | 24 |
| need | 66 (4.2%) | 7 | 13 |
| looking | 61 (3.8%) | 4 | 12 |
| dating | 55 (3.5%) | 10 | 19 |
| partners | 53 (3.3%) | 32 | 31 |
| help | 52 (3.3%) | 6 | 18 |
r/polyamory Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/polyamory
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/polyamory Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/polyamory
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Update on the Nintendo Switch Polyam Orgy! The suggestions for a room to rest was PERFECT!
Poly meetup/orgy in a few hours, rude to take my Nintendo Switch?
Monogamous people never understand
Self Imposed Rules
Should I tell my Feeld date their photos are out of date?
Brutal butt-dial while my partner was with someone else
Ask me a polyamory question, and then edit your question to make me look bad
No Time? No Polyamory.
Why are the stupidest things the hardest in polyamory?
Advice to ppl that say - “my partner wants poly but I don’t” - please LEAVE
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Update on the Nintendo Switch Polyam Orgy! The suggestions for a room to rest was PERFECT! | 1.3K | 38 | text | Jul 17 |
| Poly meetup/orgy in a few hours, rude to take my Nintendo Switch? | 1.1K | 142 | text | Jul 17 |
| Monogamous people never understand | 538 | 76 | text | Jul 31 |
| Self Imposed Rules | 529 | 130 | text | Jul 21 |
| Should I tell my Feeld date their photos are out of date? | 517 | 109 | text | Jul 2 |
| Brutal butt-dial while my partner was with someone else | 392 | 20 | text | Jul 20 |
| Ask me a polyamory question, and then edit your question to make me look bad | 389 | 297 | text | Jul 29 |
| No Time? No Polyamory. | 379 | 68 | text | Jul 20 |
| Why are the stupidest things the hardest in polyamory? | 376 | 50 | text | Jul 24 |
| Advice to ppl that say - “my partner wants poly but I don’t” - please LEAVE | 333 | 38 | text | Jul 24 |
r/polyamory Audience Overlap r/polyamory Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/polyamory FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/polyamory
What's the best time to post on r/polyamory?
Based on posting volume, r/polyamory is most active on Fridays around 12 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/polyamory?
r/polyamory averages 51 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/polyamory get?
Posts on r/polyamory average about 16 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/polyamory get most?
On r/polyamory, most posts are text posts (100%)