904 posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 29 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Saturdays around 11 AM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/nonmonogamy Traffic & Engagement r/nonmonogamy Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/nonmonogamy Most Active Times When r/nonmonogamy Is Most Active
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r/nonmonogamy Flair Performance r/nonmonogamy Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Relationship Dynamics | 175 (19.4%) | 6 |
| Threesomes, Foursomes, and Moresomes | 164 (18.1%) | 5 |
| Dating Advice | 122 (13.5%) | 4 |
| Opening a Relationship | 117 (12.9%) | 7 |
| Jealousy & Insecurity | 65 (7.2%) | 7 |
| Boundaries & Agreements | 64 (7.1%) | 5 |
| Swinging | 34 (3.8%) | 5 |
| Resources Needed | 32 (3.5%) | 7 |
| Polyamory | 26 (2.9%) | 4 |
| Cheating and Ethics | 19 (2.1%) | 5 |
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r/nonmonogamy Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/nonmonogamy
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| relationship | 132 (14.6%) | 7 | 12 |
| open | 96 (10.6%) | 9 | 17 |
| advice | 90 (10.0%) | 3 | 9 |
| threesome | 80 (8.8%) | 8 | 12 |
| wife | 75 (8.3%) | 8 | 18 |
| partner | 64 (7.1%) | 7 | 14 |
| first | 61 (6.8%) | 9 | 9 |
| enm | 57 (6.3%) | 6 | 11 |
| want | 48 (5.3%) | 4 | 11 |
| non | 44 (4.9%) | 6 | 13 |
r/nonmonogamy Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/nonmonogamy
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Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/nonmonogamy Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/nonmonogamy
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My partners think I'm a good hinge!
Had my First MFM Oral Threesome!
So tired of therapists pathologizing nonmonogamy
Exploring with my husband unlocked a side of me I wasn’t expecting
Three Years Without Sex Because of My Husband's Accident, Where Is the Line With Male Friends?
How do I deal with my non-mono partner treating ENM literature like required reading? (A plea from a mostly mono partner)
Wife Cheated, What Should I do
Gf only wants mfm
First Threesome In Open Relationship
Wife’s boyfriend texting me
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| My partners think I'm a good hinge! | 124 | 6 | text | Aug 31 |
| Had my First MFM Oral Threesome! | 119 | 11 | text | Aug 17 |
| So tired of therapists pathologizing nonmonogamy | 100 | 36 | text | Aug 21 |
| Exploring with my husband unlocked a side of me I wasn’t expecting | 83 | 44 | text | Aug 10 |
| Three Years Without Sex Because of My Husband's Accident, Where Is the Line With Male Friends? | 79 | 65 | text | Aug 14 |
| How do I deal with my non-mono partner treating ENM literature like required reading? (A plea from a mostly mono partner) | 75 | 56 | text | Aug 28 |
| Wife Cheated, What Should I do | 73 | 122 | text | Aug 21 |
| Gf only wants mfm | 71 | 26 | text | Aug 29 |
| First Threesome In Open Relationship | 70 | 51 | text | Aug 19 |
| Wife’s boyfriend texting me | 69 | 86 | text | Aug 25 |
r/nonmonogamy Audience Overlap r/nonmonogamy Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/nonmonogamy FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/nonmonogamy
What's the best time to post on r/nonmonogamy?
Based on posting volume, r/nonmonogamy is most active on Saturdays around 11 AM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/nonmonogamy?
r/nonmonogamy averages 29 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/nonmonogamy get?
Posts on r/nonmonogamy average about 6 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/nonmonogamy get most?
On r/nonmonogamy, most posts are text posts (100%)