647 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 22 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Saturdays around 7 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Traffic & Engagement r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Most Active Times When r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Is Most Active
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r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Flair Performance r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) | 279 (43.1%) | 13 |
| Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. | 176 (27.2%) | 8 |
| No advice, just support. | 88 (13.6%) | 32 |
| Betrayed Perspective Only | 70 (10.8%) | 9 |
| Wayward Perspective Only | 24 (3.7%) | 6 |
| Farewell, R is over | 10 (1.5%) | 22 |
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r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| years | 35 (5.4%) | 27 | 11 |
| day | 32 (5.0%) | 14 | 8 |
| cheated | 31 (4.8%) | 6 | 6 |
| relationship | 28 (4.3%) | 5 | 4 |
| affair | 26 (4.0%) | 19 | 10 |
| need | 26 (4.0%) | 6 | 5 |
| dday | 25 (3.9%) | 12 | 8 |
| advice | 25 (3.9%) | 6 | 7 |
| partner | 24 (3.7%) | 7 | 7 |
| post | 24 (3.7%) | 12 | 6 |
r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
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*Massive Trigger Warning*- After trying to reconcile for over 2 years, my WH is no longer living.
I want WP to suffer.
"This is so much worse than someone dying"
If they want to, they will.
I’m so sick of being here every fucking day
I’m at a wedding. It couldn’t have been a worse choice
Post-affair update from a wayward
I miss safe love.
Infidelity realities after 10 years
R Over. He chose her.
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| *Massive Trigger Warning*- After trying to reconcile for over 2 years, my WH is no longer living. | 309 | 53 | text | Sep 20 |
| I want WP to suffer. | 165 | 39 | text | Sep 3 |
| "This is so much worse than someone dying" | 165 | 34 | text | Sep 9 |
| If they want to, they will. | 157 | 22 | text | Sep 1 |
| I’m so sick of being here every fucking day | 142 | 49 | text | Sep 11 |
| I’m at a wedding. It couldn’t have been a worse choice | 129 | 34 | text | Sep 9 |
| Post-affair update from a wayward | 117 | 29 | text | Sep 3 |
| I miss safe love. | 113 | 27 | text | Sep 25 |
| Infidelity realities after 10 years | 111 | 23 | text | Sep 1 |
| R Over. He chose her. | 106 | 20 | text | Sep 14 |
r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Audience Overlap r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/AsOneAfterInfidelity FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
What's the best time to post on r/AsOneAfterInfidelity?
Based on posting volume, r/AsOneAfterInfidelity is most active on Saturdays around 7 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/AsOneAfterInfidelity?
r/AsOneAfterInfidelity averages 22 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/AsOneAfterInfidelity get?
Posts on r/AsOneAfterInfidelity average about 14 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/AsOneAfterInfidelity get most?
On r/AsOneAfterInfidelity, most posts are text posts (100%)