848 posts analyzed Updated Jun 2026
Averages 28 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 3 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Traffic & Engagement r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Traffic & Engagement
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r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Most Active Times When r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Is Most Active
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r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Flair Performance r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Flair Performance
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| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) | 282 (33.3%) | 12 |
| Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. | 257 (30.3%) | 9 |
| Betrayed Perspective Only | 133 (15.7%) | 10 |
| No advice, just support. | 111 (13.1%) | 22 |
| Wayward Perspective Only | 46 (5.4%) | 12 |
| Farewell, R is over | 18 (2.1%) | 7 |
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r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| help | 49 (5.8%) | 4 | 6 |
| affair | 45 (5.3%) | 14 | 12 |
| reconciliation | 33 (3.9%) | 5 | 5 |
| dday | 32 (3.8%) | 10 | 9 |
| need | 31 (3.7%) | 3 | 4 |
| feel | 31 (3.7%) | 17 | 12 |
| advice | 28 (3.3%) | 5 | 6 |
| think | 27 (3.2%) | 14 | 8 |
| struggling | 25 (3.0%) | 7 | 6 |
| marriage | 23 (2.7%) | 8 | 10 |
r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
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r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
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My husband is shocked that his cheating might actually have consequences
Staying takes a lot of strength.
Intrusive sad thoughts
Literally how do people get past this… starting to feel like I’m giving up…
What do you waywards think about on a daily basis with the affair?
Nine Years
I will never be her Last
Why can’t people just be honest with themselves?
There’s before & there’s after
I look at other couples differently now
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| My husband is shocked that his cheating might actually have consequences | 277 | 43 | text | Jun 15 |
| Staying takes a lot of strength. | 212 | 56 | text | Jun 2 |
| Intrusive sad thoughts | 152 | 29 | text | Jun 20 |
| Literally how do people get past this… starting to feel like I’m giving up… | 151 | 36 | text | Jun 5 |
| What do you waywards think about on a daily basis with the affair? | 151 | 58 | text | Jun 29 |
| Nine Years | 138 | 30 | text | Jun 8 |
| I will never be her Last | 135 | 52 | text | Jun 3 |
| Why can’t people just be honest with themselves? | 119 | 56 | text | Jun 12 |
| There’s before & there’s after | 117 | 24 | text | Jun 21 |
| I look at other couples differently now | 115 | 50 | text | Jun 6 |
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r/AsOneAfterInfidelity FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
What's the best time to post on r/AsOneAfterInfidelity?
Based on posting volume, r/AsOneAfterInfidelity is most active on Wednesdays around 3 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/AsOneAfterInfidelity?
r/AsOneAfterInfidelity averages 28 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/AsOneAfterInfidelity get?
Posts on r/AsOneAfterInfidelity average about 12 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/AsOneAfterInfidelity get most?
On r/AsOneAfterInfidelity, most posts are text posts (100%)