765 posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 25 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 4 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Traffic & Engagement r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Traffic & Engagement
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r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Most Active Times When r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Is Most Active
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r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Flair Performance r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed) | 294 (38.4%) | 11 |
| Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice. | 208 (27.2%) | 9 |
| Betrayed Perspective Only | 122 (15.9%) | 10 |
| No advice, just support. | 93 (12.2%) | 19 |
| Wayward Perspective Only | 34 (4.4%) | 10 |
| Farewell, R is over | 14 (1.8%) | 27 |
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r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| years | 48 (6.3%) | 14 | 6 |
| advice | 47 (6.1%) | 4 | 4 |
| affair | 39 (5.1%) | 15 | 9 |
| need | 34 (4.4%) | 6 | 6 |
| know | 29 (3.8%) | 11 | 9 |
| reconciliation | 29 (3.8%) | 12 | 7 |
| anyone | 27 (3.5%) | 9 | 7 |
| dday | 27 (3.5%) | 10 | 8 |
| help | 25 (3.3%) | 8 | 8 |
| partner | 25 (3.3%) | 10 | 7 |
r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
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r/AsOneAfterInfidelity Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
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"It was a mistake"
Why does reconciliation ask so much more from the betrayed?
I was reminded why I don’t track WH anymore…
Why do waywards care if the BP wants to leave?
The mental tax
How do you come to terms with nothing ever being the same again
I want to hurt AP and his marriage after breaking mine
Infidelity may have just killed how I view my husband, myself, our past, present, and future.
First couples therapy session was brutal
There are some things you can’t come back from.
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| "It was a mistake" | 181 | 35 | text | Aug 23 |
| Why does reconciliation ask so much more from the betrayed? | 140 | 20 | text | Aug 1 |
| I was reminded why I don’t track WH anymore… | 118 | 35 | text | Aug 5 |
| Why do waywards care if the BP wants to leave? | 107 | 23 | text | Aug 10 |
| The mental tax | 100 | 39 | text | Aug 31 |
| How do you come to terms with nothing ever being the same again | 100 | 47 | text | Aug 14 |
| I want to hurt AP and his marriage after breaking mine | 96 | 48 | text | Aug 17 |
| Infidelity may have just killed how I view my husband, myself, our past, present, and future. | 91 | 26 | text | Aug 4 |
| First couples therapy session was brutal | 89 | 29 | text | Aug 31 |
| There are some things you can’t come back from. | 88 | 19 | text | Aug 13 |
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r/AsOneAfterInfidelity FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
What's the best time to post on r/AsOneAfterInfidelity?
Based on posting volume, r/AsOneAfterInfidelity is most active on Wednesdays around 4 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/AsOneAfterInfidelity?
r/AsOneAfterInfidelity averages 25 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/AsOneAfterInfidelity get?
Posts on r/AsOneAfterInfidelity average about 12 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/AsOneAfterInfidelity get most?
On r/AsOneAfterInfidelity, most posts are text posts (100%)