714 posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 24 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (81%).
r/Infidelity Traffic & Engagement r/Infidelity Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/Infidelity Most Active Times When r/Infidelity Is Most Active
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r/Infidelity Flair Performance r/Infidelity Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Advice | 164 (48.1%) | 8 |
| Struggling | 59 (17.3%) | 11 |
| Venting | 46 (13.5%) | 11 |
| Suspicion | 40 (11.7%) | 12 |
| Coping | 18 (5.3%) | 14 |
| Recovery | 10 (2.9%) | 12 |
| Resources | 4 (1.2%) | 2 |
Post Type Breakdown
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r/Infidelity Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/Infidelity
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| cheating | 95 (13.3%) | 7 | 10 |
| cheated | 92 (12.9%) | 8 | 12 |
| years | 62 (8.7%) | 7 | 10 |
| husband | 55 (7.7%) | 8 | 10 |
| wife | 53 (7.4%) | 20 | 33 |
| found | 49 (6.9%) | 14 | 18 |
| affair | 43 (6.0%) | 8 | 13 |
| know | 41 (5.7%) | 5 | 11 |
| need | 37 (5.2%) | 5 | 6 |
| boyfriend | 32 (4.5%) | 2 | 5 |
r/Infidelity Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/Infidelity
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/Infidelity Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/Infidelity
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
My girlfriend tried to hide her location so I wouldn't get suspicious, but it only had the opposite effect
Cheating wife update
Well you guys were right. She did it again. Time to move on.
I just found out my wife cheated
Wife of 7 years Cheated
Found out my wife met a guy multiple times
My girlfriend went to two guys’ apartment, drank with them, and they propositioned her, am I wrong for seeing this as a dealbreaker?
Awkward situation
When is enough….. update
God's favorite fucking joke
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| My girlfriend tried to hide her location so I wouldn't get suspicious, but it only had the opposite effect | 152 | 80 | text | Sep 27 |
| Cheating wife update | 148 | 45 | link | Sep 28 |
| Well you guys were right. She did it again. Time to move on. | 142 | 46 | text | Sep 19 |
| I just found out my wife cheated | 114 | 124 | text | Sep 7 |
| Wife of 7 years Cheated | 110 | 161 | text | Sep 2 |
| Found out my wife met a guy multiple times | 108 | 169 | text | Sep 24 |
| My girlfriend went to two guys’ apartment, drank with them, and they propositioned her, am I wrong for seeing this as a dealbreaker? | 101 | 136 | text | Sep 18 |
| Awkward situation | 99 | 74 | text | Sep 29 |
| When is enough….. update | 98 | 61 | text | Sep 23 |
| God's favorite fucking joke | 86 | 23 | text | Sep 23 |
r/Infidelity Audience Overlap r/Infidelity Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/Infidelity FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/Infidelity
What's the best time to post on r/Infidelity?
Based on posting volume, r/Infidelity is most active on Tuesdays around 1 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/Infidelity?
r/Infidelity averages 24 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/Infidelity get?
Posts on r/Infidelity average about 7 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/Infidelity get most?
On r/Infidelity, most posts are text posts (81%)