740 posts analyzed Updated Jun 2026
Averages 25 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Mondays around 2 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (84%).
r/Infidelity Traffic & Engagement r/Infidelity Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/Infidelity Most Active Times When r/Infidelity Is Most Active
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r/Infidelity Flair Performance r/Infidelity Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Advice | 178 (46.4%) | 10 |
| Struggling | 66 (17.2%) | 12 |
| Suspicion | 53 (13.8%) | 8 |
| Venting | 43 (11.2%) | 26 |
| Coping | 21 (5.5%) | 23 |
| Recovery | 17 (4.4%) | 9 |
| Resources | 6 (1.6%) | 9 |
Post Type Breakdown
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r/Infidelity Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/Infidelity
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| cheating | 100 (13.5%) | 8 | 10 |
| cheated | 84 (11.3%) | 9 | 10 |
| wife | 79 (10.7%) | 17 | 18 |
| years | 45 (6.1%) | 12 | 9 |
| husband | 42 (5.7%) | 9 | 16 |
| need | 42 (5.7%) | 13 | 12 |
| found | 41 (5.5%) | 19 | 13 |
| help | 40 (5.4%) | 4 | 5 |
| know | 36 (4.9%) | 7 | 9 |
| partner | 35 (4.7%) | 3 | 5 |
r/Infidelity Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/Infidelity
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/Infidelity Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/Infidelity
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Found out about the affair
Caught my wife texting her coworker late at night for the third time this month and the messages are way too flirty - need real advice
Need advice. Found evidence of my wife cheating and I’m spiraling.
Waiting for cheating wife of 20 years to move out is brutal!
I [M37] caught my wife [F33] having an affair with her sister's husband [M31]. Now her sister [F30] wants us to "get even" and I don't know what to do.
Wife cheated while I was recovery from surgery
Wife Cheated With My Best Friend
The woman my dad had an affair with reported my mom to HR
Need advice/help getting past this heart break
How to inform other spouse of infidelity
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Found out about the affair | 288 | 129 | text | Jun 19 |
| Caught my wife texting her coworker late at night for the third time this month and the messages are way too flirty - need real advice | 162 | 117 | text | Jun 8 |
| Need advice. Found evidence of my wife cheating and I’m spiraling. | 146 | 96 | text | Jun 28 |
| Waiting for cheating wife of 20 years to move out is brutal! | 137 | 61 | text | Jun 7 |
| I [M37] caught my wife [F33] having an affair with her sister's husband [M31]. Now her sister [F30] wants us to "get even" and I don't know what to do. | 106 | 117 | text | Jun 14 |
| Wife cheated while I was recovery from surgery | 103 | 47 | text | Jun 11 |
| Wife Cheated With My Best Friend | 97 | 159 | text | Jun 20 |
| The woman my dad had an affair with reported my mom to HR | 95 | 31 | text | Jun 16 |
| Need advice/help getting past this heart break | 92 | 34 | text | Jun 23 |
| How to inform other spouse of infidelity | 92 | 48 | text | Jun 29 |
r/Infidelity Audience Overlap r/Infidelity Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/Infidelity FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/Infidelity
What's the best time to post on r/Infidelity?
Based on posting volume, r/Infidelity is most active on Mondays around 2 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/Infidelity?
r/Infidelity averages 25 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/Infidelity get?
Posts on r/Infidelity average about 7 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/Infidelity get most?
On r/Infidelity, most posts are text posts (84%)