824 posts analyzed Updated Jul 2026
Averages 27 posts/day, top 10% activity. Most active Thursdays around 12 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (85%).
r/Infidelity Traffic & Engagement r/Infidelity Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/Infidelity Most Active Times When r/Infidelity Is Most Active
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r/Infidelity Flair Performance r/Infidelity Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Advice | 233 (52.8%) | 9 |
| Struggling | 75 (17.0%) | 10 |
| Venting | 59 (13.4%) | 17 |
| Suspicion | 38 (8.6%) | 12 |
| Coping | 16 (3.6%) | 8 |
| Resources | 11 (2.5%) | 8 |
| Recovery | 9 (2.0%) | 8 |
Post Type Breakdown
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r/Infidelity Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/Infidelity
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| cheating | 132 (16.0%) | 7 | 10 |
| cheated | 111 (13.5%) | 4 | 8 |
| wife | 66 (8.0%) | 12 | 14 |
| husband | 62 (7.5%) | 4 | 6 |
| know | 46 (5.6%) | 5 | 8 |
| found | 45 (5.5%) | 4 | 6 |
| need | 41 (5.0%) | 7 | 11 |
| years | 39 (4.7%) | 9 | 7 |
| advice | 38 (4.6%) | 6 | 9 |
| relationship | 37 (4.5%) | 7 | 5 |
r/Infidelity Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/Infidelity
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/Infidelity Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/Infidelity
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
Needing to Vent
Update #2: Is my wife cheating on me
Update to my life 2.5 years post-divorce with my cheating ex-wife who had a 2.5 year long cohabitating relationship with our nanny.
The Adultery Sub
Please convince me my spouse is not cheating
"I Understand" No You Don't
a customer of my wife tried to hit on her
Not sure what to do.
From the Infidelity community on Reddit
14 years down the drain
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Needing to Vent | 148 | 85 | text | Jul 3 |
| Update #2: Is my wife cheating on me | 116 | 104 | text | Jul 6 |
| Update to my life 2.5 years post-divorce with my cheating ex-wife who had a 2.5 year long cohabitating relationship with our nanny. | 115 | 13 | text | Jul 26 |
| The Adultery Sub | 113 | 57 | text | Jul 4 |
| Please convince me my spouse is not cheating | 99 | 129 | text | Jul 13 |
| "I Understand" No You Don't | 88 | 46 | text | Jul 14 |
| a customer of my wife tried to hit on her | 82 | 77 | text | Jul 9 |
| Not sure what to do. | 80 | 77 | text | Jul 24 |
| From the Infidelity community on Reddit | 73 | 10 | link | Jul 27 |
| 14 years down the drain | 66 | 123 | text | Jul 22 |
r/Infidelity Audience Overlap r/Infidelity Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/Infidelity FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/Infidelity
What's the best time to post on r/Infidelity?
Based on posting volume, r/Infidelity is most active on Thursdays around 12 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/Infidelity?
r/Infidelity averages 27 posts per day and ranks in the top 10% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/Infidelity get?
Posts on r/Infidelity average about 6 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/Infidelity get most?
On r/Infidelity, most posts are text posts (85%)