1.2K posts analyzed Updated Aug 2026
Averages 38 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Sundays around 11 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/survivinginfidelity Traffic & Engagement r/survivinginfidelity Traffic & Engagement
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Upvote Distribution
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r/survivinginfidelity Most Active Times When r/survivinginfidelity Is Most Active
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r/survivinginfidelity Flair Performance r/survivinginfidelity Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Advice | 479 (40.8%) | 9 |
| Need Support | 390 (33.2%) | 13 |
| Rant | 178 (15.1%) | 30 |
| Progress | 41 (3.5%) | 40 |
| Post-Separation | 38 (3.2%) | 30 |
| Reconciliation | 25 (2.1%) | 24 |
| Building Trust | 13 (1.1%) | 9 |
| Therapy | 8 (0.7%) | 9 |
| Wayward | 3 (0.3%) | 1 |
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r/survivinginfidelity Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/survivinginfidelity
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| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| cheated | 170 (14.4%) | 12 | 13 |
| years | 132 (11.2%) | 16 | 20 |
| cheating | 130 (11.1%) | 12 | 15 |
| affair | 84 (7.1%) | 36 | 31 |
| wife | 67 (5.7%) | 40 | 39 |
| found | 67 (5.7%) | 15 | 15 |
| husband | 66 (5.6%) | 11 | 16 |
| know | 56 (4.8%) | 13 | 21 |
| partner | 55 (4.7%) | 26 | 20 |
| need | 50 (4.3%) | 6 | 9 |
r/survivinginfidelity Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/survivinginfidelity
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This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/survivinginfidelity Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/survivinginfidelity
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Mic drop moments are amazing
I ran into my ex wife's affair partner and his wife in a store today.
Fuck cheaters and the trauma they cause
Affair partner just had a baby and they named it ...
Found out my wife was having an affair. Up date to my deleted Post.
I finally learned the truth, and somehow it was even worse than I imagined
Almost 14 years later and another D-day for my kids
My kids keep talking about the affair partner...
6th Update: We went to therapy just to facilitate the divorce.
Found out wife has been cheating on me yesterday
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Mic drop moments are amazing | 417 | 103 | text | Aug 21 |
| I ran into my ex wife's affair partner and his wife in a store today. | 373 | 107 | text | Aug 11 |
| Fuck cheaters and the trauma they cause | 302 | 81 | text | Aug 3 |
| Affair partner just had a baby and they named it ... | 294 | 71 | text | Aug 31 |
| Found out my wife was having an affair. Up date to my deleted Post. | 241 | 81 | text | Aug 23 |
| I finally learned the truth, and somehow it was even worse than I imagined | 235 | 59 | text | Aug 12 |
| Almost 14 years later and another D-day for my kids | 221 | 40 | text | Aug 31 |
| My kids keep talking about the affair partner... | 215 | 130 | text | Aug 25 |
| 6th Update: We went to therapy just to facilitate the divorce. | 200 | 83 | text | Aug 18 |
| Found out wife has been cheating on me yesterday | 182 | 153 | text | Aug 21 |
r/survivinginfidelity Audience Overlap r/survivinginfidelity Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
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r/survivinginfidelity FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/survivinginfidelity
What's the best time to post on r/survivinginfidelity?
Based on posting volume, r/survivinginfidelity is most active on Sundays around 11 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/survivinginfidelity?
r/survivinginfidelity averages 38 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/survivinginfidelity get?
Posts on r/survivinginfidelity average about 16 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/survivinginfidelity get most?
On r/survivinginfidelity, most posts are text posts (100%)