1.1K posts analyzed Updated Sep 2026
Averages 36 posts/day, top 5% activity. Most active Wednesdays around 4 PM UTC. Mostly text posts (100%).
r/survivinginfidelity Traffic & Engagement r/survivinginfidelity Traffic & Engagement
Volume and engagement over time Posting volume and engagement over time
Post Format
Upvote Distribution
How upvoted posts perform Only posts with 2+ upvotes. The bands below show how those posts are spread by upvote count.
r/survivinginfidelity Most Active Times When r/survivinginfidelity Is Most Active
Peak posting by day and hour (UTC) When this community posts most, by day and hour (UTC)
Most Active by Day
r/survivinginfidelity Flair Performance r/survivinginfidelity Flair Performance
Upvotes and volume by flair Average upvotes and post volume by flair
| Flair | Posts | Upvotes |
|---|---|---|
| Advice | 419 (39.1%) | 11 |
| Need Support | 402 (37.5%) | 14 |
| Rant | 125 (11.7%) | 32 |
| Post-Separation | 37 (3.5%) | 21 |
| Progress | 29 (2.7%) | 41 |
| Reconciliation | 22 (2.1%) | 11 |
| Building Trust | 19 (1.8%) | 3 |
| Therapy | 12 (1.1%) | 22 |
| Wayward | 4 (0.4%) | 3 |
| Meta | 3 (0.3%) | 13 |
Post Type Breakdown
Share by text, image, or link Share of posts by format: text, image, or link
r/survivinginfidelity Trending Keywords Trending Keywords in r/survivinginfidelity
Ranked by how often they appear Title keywords ranked by how often they appear
| Keyword | Mentions ▼ | Upvotes | Comments |
|---|---|---|---|
| cheated | 138 (12.9%) | 10 | 15 |
| years | 107 (10.0%) | 17 | 20 |
| cheating | 105 (9.8%) | 10 | 14 |
| wife | 73 (6.8%) | 31 | 44 |
| affair | 73 (6.8%) | 27 | 37 |
| found | 73 (6.8%) | 13 | 15 |
| know | 71 (6.6%) | 8 | 16 |
| husband | 69 (6.4%) | 15 | 17 |
| partner | 64 (6.0%) | 11 | 19 |
| relationship | 51 (4.8%) | 11 | 12 |
r/survivinginfidelity Mentioned Domains Mentioned Domains in r/survivinginfidelity
Most linked sites Most linked sites in this subreddit
This community doesn't link off-site.
Its posts are text, images, or discussion rather than outbound links.
r/survivinginfidelity Top Posts Top Performing Posts in r/survivinginfidelity
Highest-performing posts Highest-performing posts. Each title links to Reddit.
AP dumped him and now he’s looking to me for comfort.
Finally ripped off the bandaid
Wife living secret life, affair with married coworker. We have a young child.
Cheats on girls trip. Zero remorse. Shocked we didn’t sleep in same bed the day I found out.
Unfortunately, y'all were right
Meanwhile 8 Years Later
Wife (married 10, together 16 years) asked for open relationship and had an emotional affair.
[Update] I thought we were going backwards, but it was so much worse
Finally lost all respect for her after discovering the monkeybranch
Need to rant - Fuck cheaters man.
| Title | Upvotes | Comments | Type | Date |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| AP dumped him and now he’s looking to me for comfort. | 346 | 71 | text | Sep 5 |
| Finally ripped off the bandaid | 233 | 168 | text | Aug 31 |
| Wife living secret life, affair with married coworker. We have a young child. | 220 | 164 | text | Sep 10 |
| Cheats on girls trip. Zero remorse. Shocked we didn’t sleep in same bed the day I found out. | 209 | 109 | text | Sep 10 |
| Unfortunately, y'all were right | 204 | 83 | text | Sep 30 |
| Meanwhile 8 Years Later | 202 | 190 | text | Sep 16 |
| Wife (married 10, together 16 years) asked for open relationship and had an emotional affair. | 194 | 152 | text | Sep 2 |
| [Update] I thought we were going backwards, but it was so much worse | 183 | 132 | text | Sep 21 |
| Finally lost all respect for her after discovering the monkeybranch | 171 | 67 | text | Sep 15 |
| Need to rant - Fuck cheaters man. | 147 | 49 | text | Sep 11 |
r/survivinginfidelity Audience Overlap r/survivinginfidelity Subreddit Overlap & Related Communities
Overlapping audiences Communities with overlapping audiences
r/survivinginfidelity FAQ Frequently Asked Questions About r/survivinginfidelity
What's the best time to post on r/survivinginfidelity?
Based on posting volume, r/survivinginfidelity is most active on Wednesdays around 4 PM UTC. That window has the most community activity, but busier hours also mean more competition for attention.
How active is r/survivinginfidelity?
r/survivinginfidelity averages 36 posts per day and ranks in the top 5% for activity among tracked SFW subreddits.
How many upvotes do posts on r/survivinginfidelity get?
Posts on r/survivinginfidelity average about 16 upvotes this month (net score per post).
What kind of posts does r/survivinginfidelity get most?
On r/survivinginfidelity, most posts are text posts (100%)